Establish a strong foundation for your relationship
At the beginning of a relationship, everything seems to just fall into place – hormones and happiness are at a high, smoothing out nearly all imperfections. However, we all know that this chemical state only lasts for a while. When it starts to unravel, we are faced with the reality of two people with their distinct patterns, beliefs and needs. To continue from here, it’s essential to get real, get grounded and find out how to make it really work together in the long run.
Every relationship carries a completely unique underlying pattern consisting of both individual and shared values, love languages and relationship needs. Individual and shared goals and dreams. All this is the foundation, the DNA of the relationship, and by becoming aware of it, it’s possible to begin to build a relationship full of honesty, authenticity and trust.
Once the foundational elements of your unique relationship are mapped out, you can move forward towards defining and agreeing on the principles of mutual interaction and daily living that will support your individual and shared well-being every day, creating a strong base for your journey together.
The quality of our closest relationships has a strong influence on our health, our happiness and our life expectancy
Tiina Urm
For couples: mapping the DNA of your relationship
I invite you and your partner on a journey, where you will get to know yourselves and each other in a much deeper way, and lay a new and solid foundation for your future relationship. We will map out the values and needs of both of you in a relationship. We will find just the right agreements and principles that allow you both to relax into being together, knowing that you are both mutually understood and cared for. We will look at your individual love languages and find the best strategy for using them. I’ll introduce you to the golden rules of authentic communication and practical techniques that will help you take your communication and understanding of each other to a whole new level.
We will meet four times, each session lasting 3 hours, during which we will go through concrete steps and exercises to help you move closer to yourself and to each other. In between, you will do both individual and joint homework that will help you go deeper and link the whole journey into one unbroken whole.
The journey can be designed at an interval that suits you, so we can meet weekly, fortnightly, or monthly, covering a total timespan from one to four months. The total cost of a tailor-made and private full journey is €750
Book a free 30-minute introductory chat to see if this journey is for you and to discuss your specific needs.